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FREQUENTLY
ASKED QUESTIONS
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Is
online dating secure? |
As always in real
life - dating is secure if you are careful yourself. Still, here are
some signs that the person on the other side may not what he presents
himself to be: 1. seems to be totally 'in love' with you from the
very first letter, 2. invites you to his place right away without
knowing you well, 3. sends you photos that do not seem to be his.
IMPORTANT FOR ALL OUR WOMEN MEMBERS FROM EAST EUROPE: never visit
a man abroad first, if he is genuinely interested in you, he will
find a way to visit you first!
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| I
forgot my password, what to do now? |
Just click
here and enter your email address and a new password will be sent
to you.
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| I
created a profile at sesile.com and although there are thousands of members
I get very little mail, why? |
Mostly people
tend to be shy, it seems and always wait for the other side to star
the conversation… so the BEST LOVE SECRET is to brake the ice yourself
and start sending lots of mail today! Follow this proven recipe: just
select people you like from our galleries and send 100 letters today,
you will get at least 50 answers in a week, at least 20 of them will
be positive, get to know well at least 10 prospective partners, meet
maybe 5 of them in person and … well after all you need 1 only to
get married!
And … very important … ALWAYS KEEP GOOD QUALITY PHOTOS ON YOUR PROFILE,
because no one writes to members without photos on their profiles.
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| How
is sesile.com different from the other dating websites? |
- only quality
profiles are approved
- no indecent photos approved
- rigid spam control
- delivery of all your messages directly to your email address along
with a link to sender's profile
- absolutely free translations done by a professional translator
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| What
is free at sesile.com and what is not? |
It is 100% free
to register, create a photo profile, browse and search our members'
database, send and receive unlimited amount of mail. It is not free
to include your contact details (like email address, tel. number,
postal address, etc.) in your messages. If you wish to include them
then please become our gold member. At present we have one-time payment
option of euros 20 for a life time gold membership and it is handled
by Paypal. Our software automatically deletes contact info in the
letters that free members send.
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| I
uploaded a photo but I do not see it on my profile, why? |
Sometimes it takes
few days for the pictures to get approved.
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| I
can see my photo on my profile but it is not there in the picture galleries,
why? |
There are two
possible reasons, one that the galleries haven't been updated since
your photo has been approved and the second more probable reason is
that your picture is not of good quality from a purely photographic
point of view.
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| Why
my profile was not approved? |
Because it was
incomplete and most probably lacked a picture… no one (including you)
likes to read such profiles and therefore we try to encourage our
members to complete their profiles.
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| How
can I use sesile.com if my profile is not approved? |
While your profile
awaits approval or after it had been disapproved you can still use
all features of our website without any restriction - you can search,
send and receive mail, BUT your profile will not appear in the search
results and will be only visible to the members you have sent mail
to.
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| I
get scam messages from members of your agency, what to do? |
Contact us immediately
so that we can delete this scammer from our database.
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| I
want to put a photo on my profile but I do not have what to do? |
Well… get a friend
or a professional to do it (it is much easier than to stay single…).
It is better to do it with a digital camera right away so that you
can upload your photos easy to our website, but even if your photos
are on paper you can get them scanned and uploaded.
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| What
methods of payment do you support? |
Paypal is the
primary, but if you want to use check or bank transfer we can arrange
it for you, just contact us at webmaster@sesile.com
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| How
can I be sure that the person I wish to correspond with is really sincere? |
That is hard to
answer of course because sometimes people do not know each other well
even after living together for years, but still, here is our advice:
even if you have the email address of the person you like and want
to meet, correspond with him/her only using our website and before
meeting him/her in person write to us and will give you a report about
that person.
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